Senior Partner

by Anita Benedict

Do you consider “Senior” a derogatory or scary word? I honestly do not know what to think. Depending on the context, inflection, and who is using the word, it could be a very important person or a decrepit pile of bones.

A senior partner in a firm or business is given respect and is paid quite handsomely for their years of service. They are often revered, envied, and on the receiving end of endless “butt kissing.”

Apparently, I am not an official senior when it comes to getting the monthly stipend, but I am old enough for a few discounts at certain stores once a month! My husband is the senior partner here at home, and if things remain the same, I can likely claim a small portion when I finally turn 60. However, until that time I am going to get active with the local senior’s group as much as possible.

I have noticed that the word “senior” can be considered derogatory and some folks do not relate to being senior as it denotes being old.  There are options such as older adult or elder, but I do like the idea of being called wisdom bearer, sage, or even seasoned soul.  I have learned in the last few years that the image of seniors, at least for me has changed dramatically: it helps to reach that age bracket.

Looking for the politically correct term for senior I found terms like “older persons,” “older adults,” or “older population”. I did read that words like elderly, old man/woman or old geezer were very derogatory, I was surprised anyone had to be told that.

When I look around the community and events that are happening, there are a few younger folks, but the majority with boundless energy are those over the age of 50. They are making the best of the years ahead and making it possible for others of all ages to enjoy life, especially life in rural areas. You might say they have more time being retired, but some of them are still working, and still have time to give. Our Senior population also have a lot of knowledge and skills to share, and while we have good old Google and You Tube to learn things, how great is it to learn first hand.

I will say one thing, the road to being a senior is pretty rocky at times, but it doesn’t take long. I still believe I am 25, until I stand up. I am blessed with plenty of role models who have changed my thoughts on the aging process. There are plenty of venerable and wise folks in our area who are elders, but not elderly or infirm. Those who have a sharp mind, but whose body has failed still have a wonderful story to tell. Celebrate their existence and take the time to learn.

I still don’t know how I feel about the word senior, but I do think being considered a senior partner in this world has merit. Bring on the reverence!